I've come to the conclusion that being at home with the baby all the time leaves little to blog about. I mean how many different ways can you serve up sore nipples, leaky breasts, spitting up and poopy diapers. I literally am down to leaving the house about once a week. I'm lucky if I can get a shower every other day or so. The sleep deprivation has long since set in and I wonder if I'm getting any good REM sleep during my 3 hour stretch that I get a night. The 1 to 2 hour catnaps I catch are giving me a grand total of maybe 6 hours sleep a day. Those that know me know I need a good deal more than that to be a nice, functional human being. The key word being nice. All I can say is the joys of motherhood!
On the positive side I am making the most of my 1 day out a week. This past weekend, MIT was baptised. So on Saturday I had a meeting at church followed by shopping for the baptism and myself (those gift certificates from Christmas came in handy), followed by picking up Munchkin and MIT's godmommy at the airport followed by dinner at the Grand Lux Cafe. I left the house at 8:30 am and didn't get back home until 12:30 am. Needless to say I overdid it just a tad and was extremely sore on Sunday.
Sunday was MIT's baptism. We also held the baby shower. It was a nice event with friends and family and gifts. MIT pretty much slept the day away which is highly unusual for her. Needless to say I crashed when I got home. Although I only slept a couple of hours it felt like many more than that. Luckily MIT slept too so it was a blessed day all around.
P.S. The cat MD and I got for Munchkin must go. MD literally bet the shit out of it last week for its latest destructive act. That and the fact that it is the most aggressive kitten either one of us has ever seen and the fact that she doesn't seem to understand that getting on the nightstands and dining room table and counters will only lead to pain and punishment means that a new residence is imminent. t's realy too bad because she is a sweet kitten but she doesn't seem to be learning the house rules. Anyone want a 5month old kitten?
Wednesday, January 28, 2004
Friday, January 16, 2004
Hello, Nurse!
MIT had her 2 week check up on 1/15. I can't believe she's been here for 2 weeks. Then I look in the mirror at my sunken in eyes and the milk-laden breasts and realize that not only is she here but I'm the mommy of an infant again. I have to admit having a child that sleeps through the night, picks out her own clothes and dresses herself really spoils you. It makes you wonder why you are doing this again and then you look at that little face that it totally dependent on you and you remember. MIT is precious. She and Munchkin look alike. You can tell they are sisters. She has the brightest little eyes (we don't know what color they are going to be) but she is so alert it's amazing. I always feel that when she opens her mouth (when she's not doing that to eat) she is going to say something profound.
Now let's back up to the eating. My daughter is greedy. As mentioned, we went to the doctor today. She's gained 8.5 ounces since she was born. She eats all the time. I literally feel like she spends most of her time attached to my breasts. The upside of this is that with my pregnancies I've gone from being a card-carrying member of the IBTC (itty-bitty titty committee) to wondering when I'll have my cover out for Jugs Magazine. The downside is sore nipples and no sleep. See, MIT latches on the feed and falls asleep. Mommy is awake and wondering how such a little person can eat so much and ONLY gain 8.5 ounces in two weeks. The doctor says she is completely healthy and doing well however and those are the words that every parent wants to hear at a check-up. MIT in the meantime, not only took a break from breastfeeding for the time we were in the office but also managed to flirt with her doctor. MD has trouble up his sleeve in a few years. I believe he was looking at Glocks online just the other day.
BTW, did I mention I have girls. 2 beautiful girls. I'm lucky!
Now let's back up to the eating. My daughter is greedy. As mentioned, we went to the doctor today. She's gained 8.5 ounces since she was born. She eats all the time. I literally feel like she spends most of her time attached to my breasts. The upside of this is that with my pregnancies I've gone from being a card-carrying member of the IBTC (itty-bitty titty committee) to wondering when I'll have my cover out for Jugs Magazine. The downside is sore nipples and no sleep. See, MIT latches on the feed and falls asleep. Mommy is awake and wondering how such a little person can eat so much and ONLY gain 8.5 ounces in two weeks. The doctor says she is completely healthy and doing well however and those are the words that every parent wants to hear at a check-up. MIT in the meantime, not only took a break from breastfeeding for the time we were in the office but also managed to flirt with her doctor. MD has trouble up his sleeve in a few years. I believe he was looking at Glocks online just the other day.
BTW, did I mention I have girls. 2 beautiful girls. I'm lucky!
It's a girl, Part 2...
To say it happened quickly is an understatement. Of course there is a story to this so let it begin.
As stated previously MIT was due on December 29, 2003. While estimating due dates isn't an exact science, once you have been given a date it's something you work towards. Something you don't want to go too far past. So when December 29 came and went without a whimper I was a little (OK a lot) disappointed to say the least. That's when the drastic measures started.
December 29, 2003 - I told MD that I wanted to walk. Munchkin has a hotel overnight with her cousin X-man and a friend from church. I was jealous. She got to lounge at the hotel, swim in the pool and eat at Red Lobster. Then I realized that this was my last opportunity to really relax by myself before the baby got here. MD was at work, Munchkin was gone, so I loafed. It was heavenly. No walking - no regular contractions - no baby. Phooey!
December 30, 2003 - I told MD again that I wanted to walk. He came home from work early because he didn't feel comfortable being at work knowing I could go into labor at any minute. While the man does irk me at times, this little moments more than make up for it. He came home and we went grocery shopping. Since I told him that I wanted to walk we did. We ran our household errands on foot. We went to Radio Shack, Walgreen's and Jewel's. Munchkin came home in the middle of grocery shopping. She spent the day at Jeeper's. I went to get her. Thanked my friend from church profusely and then we went back to Jewel to help MD finish shopping. Needless to say the walking made me sore but not much else. I felt more contractions but no baby. Phooey!
December 31, 2003 - We were bums. We didn't go anywhere or do anything. We all held our breath hoping that the walking would cause the baby to get here before 2003 ended so we could get the nice tax break. Actually I was just ready for some more regular contractions that might indicate the start of something bigger. No such luck. We celebrated the new year at home as a family watching television and toasting with orange juice. It was pretty nice actually. Again - no regular contractions - no baby - no tax break. Aw shucks!
January 1, 2004 - I woke up horny. Believe me, I was as shocked as you are. No one was more shocked than MD. We got to test the good sex theory. Believe it or not, it worked. Plus I think the idea of no sex for six weeks might have spurred on the libido. Last chance to get some for a while theory. Needless to say regular contractions were on the menu for the rest of the day. I knew MIT would be born on the first then, just not when.
I had to redo laundry because we had a humidifier incident a couple of days before, so I made it to the laundry room. I also packed a bag for Munchkin. I wasn't sure if she would stay with us or with our parents but she needed a bag either way. My bag wasn't packed yet but it was in my head. Anyway, I'm doing laundry and my contractions are about 7 - 8 minutes apart. By the time I finished laundry they were 5 minutes apart. MD had company over. By the time I finished putting the laundry away and getting Munchkin dressed, the contractions were 3 minutes apart. I told Munchkin to go tell Daddy it was time. Company got put out and the mad rush began. I called the doctor and packed my bag. I put on clothes and waited for MD. He didn't have a bag packed let alone a bag to put things in. He took forever! He had the nerve to iron his pants. IRON YOUR PANTS - who is going to see you or your pants. I'm having a baby here and I'M READY TO GO NOW!!! We finally got out the house 45 minutes after I called the doctor. Needless to say my contractions are now closer than 3 minutes apart.
To his credit MD made it to the hospital in 20 minutes. By that time the contractions were coming pretty much one after the other. We made it to LaGrange Memorial Hospital at 8:00 pm. The ER nurse took me straight to Labor and Delivery while MD and Munchkin parked the car and checked in. The urge to push came around 8:10 - 8:15 pm. MIT was born at 8:24 pm. Needless to say it was a quick delivery and she would have been here earlier except we didn't have a doctor yet. Never tell a laboring woman to breath through contractions. It's a bad idea. By 9:00 pm MIT was in my arms and nursing. Ahhh - heaven on earth!
Now for all those that want to know - yes it hurt. Labor is painful. Labor without drugs is even more painful. Anyone that tells you different is lying and probably trying to get you pregnant. I don't know what labor with drugs is like because I've never experienced it. Both Munckin and MIT were natural births. But the end result is worth it.
P.S. I have girls. This is great!!
As stated previously MIT was due on December 29, 2003. While estimating due dates isn't an exact science, once you have been given a date it's something you work towards. Something you don't want to go too far past. So when December 29 came and went without a whimper I was a little (OK a lot) disappointed to say the least. That's when the drastic measures started.
December 29, 2003 - I told MD that I wanted to walk. Munchkin has a hotel overnight with her cousin X-man and a friend from church. I was jealous. She got to lounge at the hotel, swim in the pool and eat at Red Lobster. Then I realized that this was my last opportunity to really relax by myself before the baby got here. MD was at work, Munchkin was gone, so I loafed. It was heavenly. No walking - no regular contractions - no baby. Phooey!
December 30, 2003 - I told MD again that I wanted to walk. He came home from work early because he didn't feel comfortable being at work knowing I could go into labor at any minute. While the man does irk me at times, this little moments more than make up for it. He came home and we went grocery shopping. Since I told him that I wanted to walk we did. We ran our household errands on foot. We went to Radio Shack, Walgreen's and Jewel's. Munchkin came home in the middle of grocery shopping. She spent the day at Jeeper's. I went to get her. Thanked my friend from church profusely and then we went back to Jewel to help MD finish shopping. Needless to say the walking made me sore but not much else. I felt more contractions but no baby. Phooey!
December 31, 2003 - We were bums. We didn't go anywhere or do anything. We all held our breath hoping that the walking would cause the baby to get here before 2003 ended so we could get the nice tax break. Actually I was just ready for some more regular contractions that might indicate the start of something bigger. No such luck. We celebrated the new year at home as a family watching television and toasting with orange juice. It was pretty nice actually. Again - no regular contractions - no baby - no tax break. Aw shucks!
January 1, 2004 - I woke up horny. Believe me, I was as shocked as you are. No one was more shocked than MD. We got to test the good sex theory. Believe it or not, it worked. Plus I think the idea of no sex for six weeks might have spurred on the libido. Last chance to get some for a while theory. Needless to say regular contractions were on the menu for the rest of the day. I knew MIT would be born on the first then, just not when.
I had to redo laundry because we had a humidifier incident a couple of days before, so I made it to the laundry room. I also packed a bag for Munchkin. I wasn't sure if she would stay with us or with our parents but she needed a bag either way. My bag wasn't packed yet but it was in my head. Anyway, I'm doing laundry and my contractions are about 7 - 8 minutes apart. By the time I finished laundry they were 5 minutes apart. MD had company over. By the time I finished putting the laundry away and getting Munchkin dressed, the contractions were 3 minutes apart. I told Munchkin to go tell Daddy it was time. Company got put out and the mad rush began. I called the doctor and packed my bag. I put on clothes and waited for MD. He didn't have a bag packed let alone a bag to put things in. He took forever! He had the nerve to iron his pants. IRON YOUR PANTS - who is going to see you or your pants. I'm having a baby here and I'M READY TO GO NOW!!! We finally got out the house 45 minutes after I called the doctor. Needless to say my contractions are now closer than 3 minutes apart.
To his credit MD made it to the hospital in 20 minutes. By that time the contractions were coming pretty much one after the other. We made it to LaGrange Memorial Hospital at 8:00 pm. The ER nurse took me straight to Labor and Delivery while MD and Munchkin parked the car and checked in. The urge to push came around 8:10 - 8:15 pm. MIT was born at 8:24 pm. Needless to say it was a quick delivery and she would have been here earlier except we didn't have a doctor yet. Never tell a laboring woman to breath through contractions. It's a bad idea. By 9:00 pm MIT was in my arms and nursing. Ahhh - heaven on earth!
Now for all those that want to know - yes it hurt. Labor is painful. Labor without drugs is even more painful. Anyone that tells you different is lying and probably trying to get you pregnant. I don't know what labor with drugs is like because I've never experienced it. Both Munckin and MIT were natural births. But the end result is worth it.
P.S. I have girls. This is great!!
Friday, January 09, 2004
It's A Girl!!!
On January 1, 2004 at 8:24 pm, MD, Munchkin and I offcially welcomed Munchkin In Training (MIT) into the world. She weighed 7 lbs, 7 oz. and was 20 inches long. She is beautiful. Those that I know personally should expect to see pictures in a few days.
Tuesday, December 30, 2003
Holiday Recap
By the way...the holidays were wonderful. Nice and restful. Munchkin made out like a bandit with Christmas gifts (like all 5 year olds should) and Mommy got to sleep in. We will see what next year holds. Happy New Year!
1 Day Overdue and Counting...
MIT was officially due December 29. Obviously MIT has not made its grand entrance because I sit here typing this entry. I went to the doctor Saturday and was told I'm only 2 cm dilated (ONLY 2 CM!!!). It's time to take matters into my own hands. I also had to have a non-stress test. This is done to make sure the baby isn't under any stress by measuring the number of movements within a certain amount of time. MIT passed with flying colors. No-stress for the baby, lots of stress for Mommy. The grandparents on are high alert. Every time we call them the first question is "Is it time?" I asked my mother if every conversation was going to start like that she said "Yes. Is it time?" No it's not time!! So the nurse gave me some other options to "jumpstart" labor.
1. Walk. This actually works. I walked when I was pregnant with Munchkin and had her the next day. MD and I have some errands to run around the house so we are going to walk. We're both fat and out of shape anyway so the walk will do us good. :)
2. White Castle Hamburgers. All I can say is blechhhh!!! It would be an act of total desperation for me to eat White Castle hamburgers. I mean total desperation as in all other options have failed. Complete, total and desperate act of depravity.
3. Good sex. Yes, I repeat, Good Sex. Coming from the nurse I wasn't shocked. I think this is the option the MD would prefer since my libido has been zero to the zero power and he says I'm neglecting him. Outside of cuddling which I always like - except in the middle of the night when I feel like a fiery furnace and resort to taking of not only all my clothes but the covers as well - sex is not top of mind.
4. Eat something to cause me to go into labor. What?? If I knew what it was that would cause me to go into labor I would have eaten it by now. This particular option sucks.
With all that said, I am ready. MD came home from work early today because he was concerned I would go into labor and he wouldn't be here. Munchkin isn't here. She got to go to a hotel overnight with her cousin. The idea of playing in the pool and sleeping away from home outstripped staying at home with Mommy while we wait for the baby to get here. What can I say? If I had the opportunity to get away I would too. So for everyone that is wondering, the baby isn't here yet and now it's time to experiment with labor jumpstarting techniques. Wish me luck. If I'm fortunate the next post will be about the new baby and where you can send gifts and presents. :)
1. Walk. This actually works. I walked when I was pregnant with Munchkin and had her the next day. MD and I have some errands to run around the house so we are going to walk. We're both fat and out of shape anyway so the walk will do us good. :)
2. White Castle Hamburgers. All I can say is blechhhh!!! It would be an act of total desperation for me to eat White Castle hamburgers. I mean total desperation as in all other options have failed. Complete, total and desperate act of depravity.
3. Good sex. Yes, I repeat, Good Sex. Coming from the nurse I wasn't shocked. I think this is the option the MD would prefer since my libido has been zero to the zero power and he says I'm neglecting him. Outside of cuddling which I always like - except in the middle of the night when I feel like a fiery furnace and resort to taking of not only all my clothes but the covers as well - sex is not top of mind.
4. Eat something to cause me to go into labor. What?? If I knew what it was that would cause me to go into labor I would have eaten it by now. This particular option sucks.
With all that said, I am ready. MD came home from work early today because he was concerned I would go into labor and he wouldn't be here. Munchkin isn't here. She got to go to a hotel overnight with her cousin. The idea of playing in the pool and sleeping away from home outstripped staying at home with Mommy while we wait for the baby to get here. What can I say? If I had the opportunity to get away I would too. So for everyone that is wondering, the baby isn't here yet and now it's time to experiment with labor jumpstarting techniques. Wish me luck. If I'm fortunate the next post will be about the new baby and where you can send gifts and presents. :)
Saturday, December 27, 2003
10 THINGS YOU WILL NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT:
Considering Jesus is the reason for the season, I thought this was appropriate. Thanks to my friend Lisa for sending.
1. The Bible still has the answers.
2. Prayer still works.
3. The Spirit can still move.
4. God still inhabits praise.
5. There is still anointed preaching.
6. There is still anointed singing.
7. God still pours out blessings.
8. There's still room at the cross.
9. Jesus still loves you.
10. Jesus still saves.
Be a blessing!
1. The Bible still has the answers.
2. Prayer still works.
3. The Spirit can still move.
4. God still inhabits praise.
5. There is still anointed preaching.
6. There is still anointed singing.
7. God still pours out blessings.
8. There's still room at the cross.
9. Jesus still loves you.
10. Jesus still saves.
Be a blessing!
Monday, December 22, 2003
And Now A Break for Vacation
As of December 18, I am officially on vacation. What does this mean? Rest. I need it and with the baby due on December 29 it's my last chance to get it. There are other things that I need to do: laundry, Christmas shopping, pack my bag. It will have to wait. If I feel even the tiniest twinge of a nap coming on I got to sleep. I'm already having contractions (sporadic though they may be) and as time draws closer I'm just exhausted. So you can expect my posts for the next few weeks to be few and far between. Once the baby arrives they may pick up but it won't be because I have so much time on my hands taking care of a newborn and a 5 year old. It will be because I need the break. At any rate...Happy Holidays and Season's Greetings to all!
I'm on vacation...woohooo!!!
I'm on vacation...woohooo!!!
Thursday, December 18, 2003
More Holiday Fun
These things never seem to stop. Found this at Ursula's. She thought it was neat and so do I. Season's Greetings!
Tuesday, December 16, 2003
Holiday Fun
If you have a few minutes to wile the time away, here's a cute little online greeting card. Enjoy and Happy Holidays!
Strom Thurmond has to be turning over in his grave...
Thurmond Family Accepts Black Woman's Paternity Claim
The oldest son of the late Sen. Strom Thurmond won't challenge the claim of a woman who says she is the product of a secret affair between the one-time segregationist and a black maid.
Thurmond Family Accepts Black Woman's Paternity Claim
The oldest son of the late Sen. Strom Thurmond won't challenge the claim of a woman who says she is the product of a secret affair between the one-time segregationist and a black maid.
Friday, December 12, 2003
Birth Number
I got this in my email box and wanted to share. Sometimes these things are pretty uncanny. I've marked those people that actually fit the profile below.
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Your birth date describes who we are, what we are good at and what our inborn abilities are. It also points to what we have to learn and the challenges we are facing.
To figure out your Birth Number, add all the numbers in the birth date together, like the example, until there is only one digit. A Birth Number does not prevent you from being anything you want to be, it will just color your choice differently and give you a little insight.
Example: March 20, 1950
3 + 20 + 1950 = 1973 = 1 + 9 + 7 + 3 = 20 = 2 + 0 = 2
2 is the Birth Number to read for the birth date in the example.
Your number is __1___,
#1 THE ORIGINATOR
#2 THE PEACEMAKER
#3 THE LIFE OF THE PARTY
#4 THE CONSERVATIVE
#5 THE NONCONFORMIST
#6 THE ROMANTIC
#7 THE INTELLECTUAL
#8 THE BIG SHOT
#9 THE PERFORMER
#1 - THE ORIGINATOR
1 's are originals. Coming up with new ideas and executing them is natural. Having things their own way is another trait that gets them as being stubborn and arrogant. 1's are extremely honest and do well to learn some diplomacy skills. They like to take the initiative and are often leaders or bosses, as they like to be the best. Being self-employed is definitely helpful for them. Lesson to learn: Others' ideas might be just as good or better and to stay open minded.
Famous 1's: Tom Hanks, Robert Redford, Hulk Hogan, Carol Burnett, Wynona Judd, Nancy Reagan, Raquel Welch
#2 - THE PEACEMAKER
2's are the born diplomats. They are aware of others' needs and moods and often think of others before themselves. Naturally analytical and very intuitive they don't like to be alone. Friendship and companionship is very important and can lead them to be successful in life, but on the other hand they'd rather be alone than in an uncomfortable relationship. Being naturally shy they should learn to boost their self-esteem and express themselves freely and seize the moment and not put things off. Famous 2's: President Bill Clinton, Madonna, Whoopee Goldberg, Thomas Edison, Wolfgang, Amadeus Mozart.
# 3 - THE LIFE OF THE PARTY
3's are idealists. They are very creative, social, charming, romantic, and easygoing. They start many things, but don't always see them through. They like others to be happy and go to great lengths to achieve it. They are very popular and idealistic. They should learn to see the world from a more realistic point of view. Famous 3's: Alan Alda, Ann Landers, Bill Cosby, Melanie Griffith, Salvador Dali, Jodi Foster
# 4 - THE CONSERVATIVE
4's are sensible and traditional. They like order and routine. They only act when they fully understand what they are expected to do. They like getting their hands dirty and working hard. They are attracted to the outdoors and feel an affinity with nature. They are prepared to wait and can be stubborn and persistent. They should learn to be more flexible and to be nice to themselves. Famous 4's: Neil Diamond, Margaret Thatcher, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tina Turner, Paul Hogan, Oprah Winfrey
# 5 - THE NONCONFORMIST (my brother and my biological father- down to a T - very scary)
5's are the explorers. Their natural curiosity, risk taking, and enthusiasm often land them in hot water. They need diversity, and don't like to be stuck in a rut. The whole world is their school and they see a learning possibility in every situation. The questions never stop. They are well advised to look before they take action and make sure they have all the facts before jumping to conclusions. Famous 5's: Abraham Lincoln, Charlotte Bronte, Jessica Walter, Vincent Van Gogh, Bette Midler, Helen Keller and Mark Hamil.
# 6 - THE ROMANTIC (Me - and most of it's true)
6's are idealistic and need to feel useful to be happy. A strong family connection is important to them. Their actions influence their decisions. They have a strong urge to take care of others and to help. They are very loyal and make great teachers. They like art or music. They make loyal friends who take the friendship seriously. 6's should learn to differentiate between what they can change and what they cannot. Famous 6's: Albert Einstein, Jane Seymour, John Denver, Meryl Streep, Christopher Columbus, Goldie Hawn
# 7 - THE INTELLECTUAL (Mom and MD - not sure if it fits well though)
7's are the searchers. Always probing for hidden information, they find it difficult to accept things at face value. Emotions don't sway their decisions. Questioning everything in life, they don't like to be questioned themselves. They're never off to a fast start, and their motto is slow and steady wins the race. They come across as philosophers and being very knowledgeable, and sometimes as loners. They are technically inclined and make great researchers uncovering information. They like secrets. They live in their own world and should learn what is acceptable and what not in the world at large. Famous 7's: William Shakespeare, Lucille Ball, Michael Jackson, Joan Baez, Princess Diana
# 8 - THE BIG SHOT (Munchkin - she's only 5 so she hasn't developed some of these...we shall see)
8's are the problem solvers. They are professional, blunt and to the point, have good judgment and are decisive. They have grand plans and like to live the good life. They take charge of people. They view people objectively. They let you know in no uncertain terms that they are the boss. They should learn to exude their decisions on their own needs rather than on what others want. Famous 8's: Edgar Cayce, Barbra Streisand, George Harrison, Jane Fonda, Pablo Picasso, Aretha Franklin, Nostrodamus, George H Bush, Barbara Bush
#9 - THE PERFORMER (My Stepdad - some of this is true; some is definitely NOT)
9's are natural entertainers. They are very caring and generous, giving away their last dollar to help. With their charm, they have no problem making friends and nobody is a stranger to them. They have so many different personalities that people around them have a hard time understanding them. They are like chameleons, ever changing and blending in. They have tremendous luck, but also can suffer from extremes in fortune and mood. To be successful, they need to build a loving foundation. Famous 9's: Albert Schweitzer, Shirley MacLaine, Harrison Ford, Jimmy Carter, Elvis Presley
"Everyone is born with genius, but most people only keep it a few minutes." Edgard Varese (1883 - 1965)
_____
Your birth date describes who we are, what we are good at and what our inborn abilities are. It also points to what we have to learn and the challenges we are facing.
To figure out your Birth Number, add all the numbers in the birth date together, like the example, until there is only one digit. A Birth Number does not prevent you from being anything you want to be, it will just color your choice differently and give you a little insight.
Example: March 20, 1950
3 + 20 + 1950 = 1973 = 1 + 9 + 7 + 3 = 20 = 2 + 0 = 2
2 is the Birth Number to read for the birth date in the example.
Your number is __1___,
#1 THE ORIGINATOR
#2 THE PEACEMAKER
#3 THE LIFE OF THE PARTY
#4 THE CONSERVATIVE
#5 THE NONCONFORMIST
#6 THE ROMANTIC
#7 THE INTELLECTUAL
#8 THE BIG SHOT
#9 THE PERFORMER
#1 - THE ORIGINATOR
1 's are originals. Coming up with new ideas and executing them is natural. Having things their own way is another trait that gets them as being stubborn and arrogant. 1's are extremely honest and do well to learn some diplomacy skills. They like to take the initiative and are often leaders or bosses, as they like to be the best. Being self-employed is definitely helpful for them. Lesson to learn: Others' ideas might be just as good or better and to stay open minded.
Famous 1's: Tom Hanks, Robert Redford, Hulk Hogan, Carol Burnett, Wynona Judd, Nancy Reagan, Raquel Welch
#2 - THE PEACEMAKER
2's are the born diplomats. They are aware of others' needs and moods and often think of others before themselves. Naturally analytical and very intuitive they don't like to be alone. Friendship and companionship is very important and can lead them to be successful in life, but on the other hand they'd rather be alone than in an uncomfortable relationship. Being naturally shy they should learn to boost their self-esteem and express themselves freely and seize the moment and not put things off. Famous 2's: President Bill Clinton, Madonna, Whoopee Goldberg, Thomas Edison, Wolfgang, Amadeus Mozart.
# 3 - THE LIFE OF THE PARTY
3's are idealists. They are very creative, social, charming, romantic, and easygoing. They start many things, but don't always see them through. They like others to be happy and go to great lengths to achieve it. They are very popular and idealistic. They should learn to see the world from a more realistic point of view. Famous 3's: Alan Alda, Ann Landers, Bill Cosby, Melanie Griffith, Salvador Dali, Jodi Foster
# 4 - THE CONSERVATIVE
4's are sensible and traditional. They like order and routine. They only act when they fully understand what they are expected to do. They like getting their hands dirty and working hard. They are attracted to the outdoors and feel an affinity with nature. They are prepared to wait and can be stubborn and persistent. They should learn to be more flexible and to be nice to themselves. Famous 4's: Neil Diamond, Margaret Thatcher, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tina Turner, Paul Hogan, Oprah Winfrey
# 5 - THE NONCONFORMIST (my brother and my biological father- down to a T - very scary)
5's are the explorers. Their natural curiosity, risk taking, and enthusiasm often land them in hot water. They need diversity, and don't like to be stuck in a rut. The whole world is their school and they see a learning possibility in every situation. The questions never stop. They are well advised to look before they take action and make sure they have all the facts before jumping to conclusions. Famous 5's: Abraham Lincoln, Charlotte Bronte, Jessica Walter, Vincent Van Gogh, Bette Midler, Helen Keller and Mark Hamil.
# 6 - THE ROMANTIC (Me - and most of it's true)
6's are idealistic and need to feel useful to be happy. A strong family connection is important to them. Their actions influence their decisions. They have a strong urge to take care of others and to help. They are very loyal and make great teachers. They like art or music. They make loyal friends who take the friendship seriously. 6's should learn to differentiate between what they can change and what they cannot. Famous 6's: Albert Einstein, Jane Seymour, John Denver, Meryl Streep, Christopher Columbus, Goldie Hawn
# 7 - THE INTELLECTUAL (Mom and MD - not sure if it fits well though)
7's are the searchers. Always probing for hidden information, they find it difficult to accept things at face value. Emotions don't sway their decisions. Questioning everything in life, they don't like to be questioned themselves. They're never off to a fast start, and their motto is slow and steady wins the race. They come across as philosophers and being very knowledgeable, and sometimes as loners. They are technically inclined and make great researchers uncovering information. They like secrets. They live in their own world and should learn what is acceptable and what not in the world at large. Famous 7's: William Shakespeare, Lucille Ball, Michael Jackson, Joan Baez, Princess Diana
# 8 - THE BIG SHOT (Munchkin - she's only 5 so she hasn't developed some of these...we shall see)
8's are the problem solvers. They are professional, blunt and to the point, have good judgment and are decisive. They have grand plans and like to live the good life. They take charge of people. They view people objectively. They let you know in no uncertain terms that they are the boss. They should learn to exude their decisions on their own needs rather than on what others want. Famous 8's: Edgar Cayce, Barbra Streisand, George Harrison, Jane Fonda, Pablo Picasso, Aretha Franklin, Nostrodamus, George H Bush, Barbara Bush
#9 - THE PERFORMER (My Stepdad - some of this is true; some is definitely NOT)
9's are natural entertainers. They are very caring and generous, giving away their last dollar to help. With their charm, they have no problem making friends and nobody is a stranger to them. They have so many different personalities that people around them have a hard time understanding them. They are like chameleons, ever changing and blending in. They have tremendous luck, but also can suffer from extremes in fortune and mood. To be successful, they need to build a loving foundation. Famous 9's: Albert Schweitzer, Shirley MacLaine, Harrison Ford, Jimmy Carter, Elvis Presley
"Everyone is born with genius, but most people only keep it a few minutes." Edgard Varese (1883 - 1965)
Are We There Yet?
I think we (Munchkin, MD and I) are all getting to the point of when is the baby going to get here. Munchkin has already mentioned on numerous times this week that she wants the baby to get her NOW! Yesterday she told me she was sad because she wants the baby to be here. She's ready to play with her sister. Then she started to cry. I had to patiently remind her that the baby will be here soon enough to disrupt her little life. She laughed and then came and got in the bed with me later so she could make sure I slept OK and be close to the baby. She is the sweetest little girl and I think she truly knows what she is getting herself into. While she has asked for a sister, she acknowledges the fact that she could get a brother. She's happy either way and greets the baby each morning wanting to know what it's doing in there. She gives my belly a hug and kiss and leaves me with nothing. Hmmph!
MD is just ready to have another little fat face baby to play with and kiss and hug and get drooled on, pooped on, pissed on, spit up on, etc. (not necessarily in that order). He feels Munchkin's pain and is impatient.
I'm just ready because I'm tired. I go to sleep tired. I wake up tired. Putting on my shoes is a chore. I'm out of breath sitting down at work and not moving. My Braxton-Hicks contractions can become real ones and I wouldn't mind - except we aren't ready. We're supposed to get Munchkin's room ready for the baby and it's nowhere close. When I get home from work I don't have the strength to do anything and the weekends are few and far between. We got the crib out of storage and couldn't find the screws and now realize that we forgot two pieces. I can't search my storage space like I would like because I've gone from not supposed to lift anything to not being able to lift anything. I don't want MD to go in there because he just throws things around like since it's not his it isn't valuable. I can't watch it and not get pissed off. Nevertheless we are going to do it tomorrow. I'll just have to look away. We are still haggling over the car seat we want. Really the travel system we want. I haven't packed my bag or the baby's. It's packed in my mind but that is going to do me a lot of good when my water breaks and we're rushing out the door. We haven't discussed if Munchkin is going to stay at the hospital with us or with one of our sets of parents. Probably MD's parents because me parents are going to Alabama for the holidays. I'm a planner and a list maker. The list is made but in my mind there's no plan. I think I'm worrying about things that I really shouldn't but I'm pregnant and hormonal. What am I supposed to do?!?!?! So I worry. Sue me, it's not going to change anything.
I say all this to say what? We're ready emotionally if not physically for the new addition to our baby. I'm starting to get excited now that the time is getting closer. My last day at work is December 17 and as it draws closer I'm more and more anxious. The office pool at work has been started and my co-workers surprised me with a baby shower. I'm lucky, blessed and love. I guess I should stop worrying.
MD is just ready to have another little fat face baby to play with and kiss and hug and get drooled on, pooped on, pissed on, spit up on, etc. (not necessarily in that order). He feels Munchkin's pain and is impatient.
I'm just ready because I'm tired. I go to sleep tired. I wake up tired. Putting on my shoes is a chore. I'm out of breath sitting down at work and not moving. My Braxton-Hicks contractions can become real ones and I wouldn't mind - except we aren't ready. We're supposed to get Munchkin's room ready for the baby and it's nowhere close. When I get home from work I don't have the strength to do anything and the weekends are few and far between. We got the crib out of storage and couldn't find the screws and now realize that we forgot two pieces. I can't search my storage space like I would like because I've gone from not supposed to lift anything to not being able to lift anything. I don't want MD to go in there because he just throws things around like since it's not his it isn't valuable. I can't watch it and not get pissed off. Nevertheless we are going to do it tomorrow. I'll just have to look away. We are still haggling over the car seat we want. Really the travel system we want. I haven't packed my bag or the baby's. It's packed in my mind but that is going to do me a lot of good when my water breaks and we're rushing out the door. We haven't discussed if Munchkin is going to stay at the hospital with us or with one of our sets of parents. Probably MD's parents because me parents are going to Alabama for the holidays. I'm a planner and a list maker. The list is made but in my mind there's no plan. I think I'm worrying about things that I really shouldn't but I'm pregnant and hormonal. What am I supposed to do?!?!?! So I worry. Sue me, it's not going to change anything.
I say all this to say what? We're ready emotionally if not physically for the new addition to our baby. I'm starting to get excited now that the time is getting closer. My last day at work is December 17 and as it draws closer I'm more and more anxious. The office pool at work has been started and my co-workers surprised me with a baby shower. I'm lucky, blessed and love. I guess I should stop worrying.
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